A 2016 Recap and a Merry Christmas!

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times…

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Charles Dickens summed up how I feel about this year.

Highlights and lowlights:

Low: Our Hearts BrokeTwice.

High: Love doesn’t die.

Low: My children don’t like the above Christmas card

High: I don’t really care 🙂

Low: We emptied and sold a house, hauling and selling stuff every weekend for four months

Saying goodbye to Grandma's house

Saying goodbye to Grandma’s house

High: We became a multi-generational family. It’s better than I ever thought it could be

Low: Four major appliances broke

High: We have Brendaen img_8339

High: We almost have a finished basement!

High: We didn’t get divorced during this process 🙂

High: I shocked myself and hired a woman to clean our home for two hours during the month of December. And I have all sorts of thoughts about this. It shall be written! #2017post

Low: Grief is not linear. Loss hangs over you and hits hard at the oddest times.

High: Friends and family. You hold me together.

Low: So many well-intentioned blog posts didn’t get written.

because :

Poor time management?

No, the other one.

Higher than a kite: In April, New York ICM literary agent Zoe Sandler called and made all my dreams come true. I have not written about this publicly yet. Hold on to your earrings, ’cause I’m still freaking out.

Low: Publishing houses apparently aren’t worried about my self-esteem #boatloadofrejection

High: Zoe is the best.

High: This is the book deal year. I can feel it . #please?

Low: “Mom, no more hashtags!”

High: #whatevs

Low: “And stop with the emoji’s!”

High:

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High: Fantastic books here and here. More coming!

Low: Read some duds, too.

High: There was soccer and basketball and swimming and running and piano and singing and chores and Netflix and cows and driving and did I mention soccer?nelson7

Low: My running suffered.img_8379

High: Running saved me.

Shout out to good health and running buddies!

Low: Faith was tested

High: Staying in the boat

Low or a High? Our country voted Donald Trump as our next president. #what?! If we’re Facebook friends, you know how I feel 🙂

High: I get to teach the best A&P class ever. We dissect pickles.

#Dissectionofadillpickle

#Dissectionofadillpickle

High: Fallimg_9461

Life was good and life was hard. The year felt short and some days felt forever long. I cried a lot. And laughed a lot, too.

If 2016 taught me anything, it’s that tomorrow can change in a second. SEE. FEEL. HEAR. TOUCH. RIGHT NOW, in the present, all that you love most.

Questions swirl in my brain as I look forward to a new year:

Will Cope go to college?

Will my boy like me again?

Are all teens surly while seeking independence from their mothers? Theoretically speaking…

Is Brynne growing up too fast?

Will Paige still hold my hand?

Will I get a book deal?

Am I good enough? #sayyes

Should I let my hair go gray? #chicken

Will I master a consistently clean house?

That was a joke.

Tonight is the winter solstice, the longest night of the year. Tomorrow the earth will begin to spin toward greater light. Literally. This makes me giddy. There is light ahead! As a born and often unrealistic optimist (my best quality 🙂 ) I’m holding out hope.

“… it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to heaven, we were all going direct the other way – in short, the period was so far like the present period…”– Charles DickensA Tale of Two Cities

Merry Christmas, friends. See you in the new year!

 

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6 thoughts on “A 2016 Recap and a Merry Christmas!

  1. Herb Cihak

    Thanks, Amy for putting 2016 in perspective. Your writing proves that Facebook has some value after all. May your Christmas with your family be merry and your New Year even brighter. Greetings from Ukraine. Elder and Sister Cihak.

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  2. Julia Tomiak

    A beautiful summary of a challenging and exciting year for you. #yes this is the year for the book deal. #yes, at least my teens are surly as they seek to define themselves #thankgoodness we still have little ones who like us.
    Merry Christmas to you, my optimistic and inspiring friend, may 2017 bring a few less tears and a few more smiles.

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  3. Kate

    Fun post. I recapped my year too, and it was quite eye-opening–the things we say publicly and don’t (so I know what you mean). Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!

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  4. JOANNE BAGLEY

    I am sure that Heather was with you all in spirit this Christmas. Her smile still warms my heart when I think of her. Thank you for your log, I really enjoy your writing. May you get a book deal. It has long been my dream as well but can’t seem to get started. Maya Angelou said if you want to write, write. Maybe 2017 will be the year that I do. God bless you and your family in the year to come.

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